# The Healing Experience Wellness Services > Mental Wellness ## Posts - [Is Your Overeating Linked to Childhood Adversity? How Your Upbringing Could Be Impacting Your Weight and Health](https://healingexperiencenow.com/mindfulness/is-your-overeating-linked-to-childhood-adversity-how-your-upbringing-could-be-impacting-your-weight-and-health/): Have you ever wondered if your overeating, emotional eating, and constant struggles with weight gain might be connected to something deeper than just a lack of willpower? If you find yourself reaching for comfort food in stressful moments or eating when you’re not hungry, it may not be just about food—it could be linked to your childhood experiences. But no one really talks about this aspect of how poor coping mechanisms due to adverse childhood expereinces many be contributing to your overeating, overindulging, etc. As a licensed psychotherapist specializing in understanding how past experiences shape present behaviors, I often see […] - [Your Mental Health May Be Impacting Your Business Success](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/business-mental-health/your-mental-health-may-be-impacting-your-business-success/): Did you know that distorted beliefs about yourself and your capabilities can profoundly impact your business? Mental health isn’t just a personal issue—it can significantly affect your professional success and entrepreneurial potential. Most people wouldn’t even fathom the extent to which their mental health can influence their business outcomes. Often referred to as business stress is defined as a state of emotional or mental pressure caused by external stressors at work or by the person’s internal response to unfavorable work circumstances, is also known as workplace stress (Smith, 2023). In reality, these internal struggles often seep into your professional life, […] - [Why Are You Running from Burnout? – It’s Going to Happen](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/why-are-you-running-from-burnout-its-going-to-happen/): As a therapist, I’ve seen firsthand how burnout can impact individuals from all walks of life. People often fear burnout, viewing it as a dreaded horror that’s almost too terrifying to face. Social society has painted it as a calamity that signals the end of the world. But I’m here to tell you that as sure as you are human, you will experience burnout at some point in your life. I’m sorry to tell you this, but it’s the truth. And guess what? It won’t be the end of the world. Burnout happens to all of us, even to me, […] - [Why Salon Owners Need to Prioritize Mental Health](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/why-salon-owners-need-to-prioritize-mental-health-with-kati-whitledge/): In the world of beauty, the goal for most salon owners is to create a thriving business while delivering exceptional service to their clients. But have you ever wondered about the hidden stress of being a salon owner? However, behind the scenes, many struggle with significant challenges related to being a beauty professional entrepreneur that often go unnoticed. If only beauty schools had covered the business aspects of entrepreneurship—like marketing, human resources, and MENTAL HEALTH—owners might be better prepared for the real-world demands they face. On my recent appearance on the Beyond the Technique podcast with Kati Whitledge, founder of […] - [Top Strategies a Licensed Therapist Recommends to Stop Overthinking](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/top-strategies-a-licensed-therapist-recommends-to-stop-overthinking/): Explore effective strategies recommended by a licensed therapist to stop overthinking. Discover practical activities and techniques to clear your mind and improve mental well-being. - [What's Holding You Back from Living Unapologetically? Identifying and Overcoming Personal Barriers](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/whats-holding-you-back-from-living-unapologetically-identifying-and-overcoming-personal-barriers/): Discover what's stopping you from living unapologetically and how to overcome personal barriers. This guide helps identify obstacles and provides actionable steps to embrace your true self confidently. - [Help! Is My Mother a Narcissist? Signs, Symptoms, and How to Cope](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/help-is-my-mother-a-narcissist-signs-symptoms-and-how-to-cope/): Imagine sitting at the kitchen table, sipping a cup of coffee with your family. The morning sun spills through the window, casting a warm glow on everything it touches. Yet, amidst the familiar chatter and clatter of breakfast dishes, there’s an inexplicable tension. You exchange glances with your siblings, sharing a silent understanding that something isn’t quite right. Just moments ago, your mother finished orchestrating yet another subtle power play, manipulating conversations and subtly undermining your sense of self. As you stir your coffee, profound questions swirl in your mind. What depths of insecurity drive her need for control? What […] - [When Saying "It's Just a Job" Is Not Enough Anymore: A Mental Health Perspective](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/when-saying-its-just-a-job-is-not-enough-anymore-a-mental-health-perspective/): Explore why saying "It's just a job" may no longer be enough from a mental health perspective. This guide delves into the impact of work-related stress and offers insights on addressing and prioritizing mental well-being in the workplace. - [The Things We Don’t Talk About: Addressing 3 Controversial Signs of a Toxic Workplace](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/the-things-we-dont-talk-about-addressing-3-controversial-signs-of-a-toxic-workplace/): Uncover three controversial signs of a toxic workplace that are often overlooked. This guide addresses key issues and offers insights on how to identify and address toxic behaviors to create a healthier work environment. - [Protecting Your Mental Health Is Harder Than You Think Especially in Workplace Environments](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/protecting-your-mental-health-is-harder-than-you-think-especially-in-workplace-environments/): Discover why protecting your mental health is particularly challenging in workplace environments. This guide explores the complexities of managing mental well-being at work and offers practical strategies for maintaining balance and resilience. - [Understanding Trauma Dumping: The Hidden Emotional Toll on Hair Stylists & Beauty Professionals](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/understanding-trauma-dumping-the-hidden-emotional-toll-on-hair-stylists-beauty-professionals/): In the world of beauty professionals, conversations often flow freely as clients settle in for their appointments. What might start as a light chat about the latest trends can sometimes morph into a deeply personal exchange—an experience known as trauma dumping. From a beauty professional perspective, this is when clients offload their emotional burdens onto you, often without warning or consideration of your own mental space- and to be quite frank this was not covered in any of your textbook curriculums. According to the American Psychological Association (APA), Trauma dumping refers to the act of sharing traumatic experiences with someone, […] - [My Child Had a Tough Day of School: What Can I Do as a Parent?](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/my-child-had-a-tough-day-of-school-what-can-i-do-as-a-parent/): It’s the end of a long day, and you’re pulling up to the carpool line to pick up your child. As you see them walking towards you, you eagerly ask, “How was your day?” But instead of the enthusiastic response you hoped for, your child’s face crumples, and they start sharing that their day was filled with struggles and disappointment. Your heart sinks, and a wave of panic washes over you. You’ve been there before — feeling helpless and unsure of how to support your child when things don’t go as planned. What do you do in that moment to […] - [Are You a Workaholic? Here Are the Signs](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/are-you-a-workaholic-here-are-the-signs/): In a society where the pressure to achieve more and more is relentless, do you find yourself caught in the cycle of workaholism, longing for a way out? Have you ever thought to yourself or pondered the idea if you are sacrificing too much of your life for the sake of work? Contrary to belief, many individuals struggle with workaholism, an often overlooked but increasingly common issue in our fast-paced, achievement-oriented society. Workaholism, unlike simply working hard, is characterized by an uncontrollable need to work incessantly. It can lead to significant physical, emotional, and social consequences. But fear not, for […] - [The Art of Doing Nothing: How to Stop the “Hustle & Bustle” Mindset](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/the-art-of-doing-nothing-how-to-stop-the-hustle-bustle-mindset/): Here are the benefits of embracing relaxation and doing nothing to stop the hustle and bustle mindset. Discover how taking time to unwind can boost your mental health, reduce stress, and improve overall well-being with simple tips and insights. I must admit- it’s exhausting! You may ask what are you talking about? I am talking about living in a world of Go-Go-Go! Truth be told, being productive in today’s social society is like a badge of honor. It’s a never-ending parade of meetings, deadlines, and tasks. Even during brief moments of respite, my mind is drafting emails and solving problems. […] - [5 Subtle Signs You Might Be in a Toxic Relationship: Recognize the Red Flags](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/5-subtle-signs-you-might-be-in-a-toxic-relationship-recognize-the-red-flags/): Learn to identify the subtle signs of a toxic relationship. This guide highlights five key red flags to watch for, helping you recognize unhealthy dynamics and take steps toward a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. - [How to Maintain Boundaries While Supporting a Friend Through a Breakup: Essential Tips for Healthy Relationships](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/how-to-maintain-your-boundaries-when-your-friend-goes-through-a-breakup/): Learn how to maintain boundaries while supporting a friend through a breakup with these essential tips. Discover strategies for offering help without compromising your own well-being and ensuring healthy, balanced relationships. - [The Person You Have Searched For is Really You: Importance of Self Identity](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/the-person-you-have-searched-for-is-really-you-importance-of-self-identity/): Understand why the journey to find your true self ultimately reveals that the person you've been searching for is you. This blog highlights the value of self-identity and how embracing your authentic is the secret key. - [Are Your Daddy Issues Affecting Your Adult Life?](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/are-your-daddy-issues-affecting-your-adult-life/): Discover how unresolved "daddy issues" might be affecting your adult life. This guide explores the signs and offers insights on healing and improving your relationships and personal well-being. - [What is Complex PTSD & How Is It Impacting Ruining Your Life?](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/what-is-complex-ptsd-how-is-it-impacting-ruining-your-life/): Discover what Complex PTSD is and how it can significantly impact and disrupt your life. This guide explains the symptoms, effects, and provides insights on seeking help and managing this challenging condition. - [How Your Narcissistic Family Has You Distrusting the World and Others](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/how-your-narcissistic-family-has-you-distrusting-the-world-and-others/): Discover how growing up in a narcissistic family can lead to deep-rooted distrust in the world and others. This guide explores the psychological impact and offers steps toward healing and rebuilding trust. - [Helping Your Kids Return to School: A Therapist’s Guide for a Stress-Free Transition](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/helping-your-kids-return-to-school-a-therapists-guide-for-a-stress-free-transition/): Get expert tips from a therapist on helping your kids transition smoothly back to school. This guide offers practical advice for easing school-related stress and supporting your child's emotional well-being. - [Do You Have “Wounded” Boundaries? Recognizing the Signs](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/do-you-have-wounded-boundaries-recognizing-the-signs/): Boundaries are like the invisible fences that define our personal space, emotional limits, and what we consider acceptable in our relationships and interactions. Healthy boundaries help us maintain our self-respect, protect our emotional well-being, and foster positive connections with others. However, when these boundaries are wounded or violated, it can deeply impact our mental and emotional health. What are Wounded Boundaries? Wounded boundaries occur when our limits are repeatedly crossed, ignored, or disrespected. This can happen in various ways: Signs of Wounded Boundaries Recognizing wounded boundaries is crucial for reclaiming our personal space and emotional well-being. Here are some signs […] - [The Few, The Proud, The Brave: Overcoming Barriers for Transitioning Veterans Seeking Services](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/the-few-the-proud-the-brave-overcoming-barriers-for-transitioning-veterans-seeking-services/): Explore how transitioning veterans can overcome barriers when seeking services. This guide provides strategies and insights to help veterans navigate challenges and access the support they need for a successful transition. - [The Things Cosmetology School Did Not Teach You](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/the-things-beauty-school-did-not-teach-you/): The Things Beauty School Did Not Teach You - [You Might Be Living in Survival Mode and Not Even Know It](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/you-might-be-living-in-survival-mode-and-not-even-know-it/): Find out if you’re unknowingly living in survival mode. This guide explains the signs, impacts, and how to break free to lead a healthier, more balanced life. - [The Emotional Toll of Beauty Professional Burnout: Why It’s Time to Prioritize Mental Health](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/the-emotional-toll-of-beauty-professional-burnout-why-its-time-to-prioritize-mental-health/): Addressing the mental health stressors among beauty professionals and Supporting mental health in the beauty industry - [5 Daily Unlearned Habits for Personal Growth and Self-Improvement](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/5-things-i-am-unlearning-daily/): Explore the five daily habits I’m unlearning to foster personal growth and self-improvement. Learn how letting go of these habits can enhance your well-being and lead to a more fulfilling life. - [4 Truths You Need to Know to Set Your Mind Free](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/4-truths-you-need-to-know-to-set-your-mind-free/): Do you often find yourself putting others' needs before your own, even at the expense of your well-being? If so, you might be displaying signs of people-pleasing behavior. Recognizing these tendencies is the first step toward reclaiming your own happiness and authenticity. In this blog post, we explore 10 telltale signs that indicate you may be a people pleaser. Discover how understanding these behaviors can empower you to set healthier boundaries, prioritize self-care, and cultivate more meaningful relationships. - [10 Telltale Signs You’re a "People Pleaser"](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/10-telltale-signs-youre-a-people-pleaser/): Identify if you're a people pleaser by exploring common signs, underlying causes, and the impact on your self-worth. Learn how to set healthy boundaries and prioritize your own needs. - [5 Ways Affirmations Can Help You Reparent Your Inner Child](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/5-ways-affirmations-can-help-you-reparent-your-inner-child/): Explore how affirmations can reparent your inner child, fostering safety, love, and self-acceptance. Discover five powerful ways these positive statements can support deep emotional healing and personal growth. - [The Impact of Unresolved Mother-Child Relationships on Adulthood](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/the-impact-of-unresolved-mother-child-relationships-on-adulthood/): We all know that the relationship between a mother and child lays the foundation for the child’s emotional development. But what happens when there are unresolved issues or conflicts between a mother and child that carry on into adulthood? In my latest video, I explore the concept of “mommy issues” — how emotional difficulties from childhood with a mother can negatively impact an individual later in life. Here are five common signs that someone may be struggling with “Mommy Issues”: 1. Difficulty setting boundaries — Rigid or overly lenient boundaries in childhood makes it hard to set healthy boundaries as an adult. This […] - [How To Heal Your “Mommy Wounds”](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/how-to-heal-your-mommy-wounds/): Healing Mommy Wounds "Mommy wounds" refer to the emotional scars from difficult relationships with our mothers. These wounds can lead to feelings of inadequacy and struggles in forming healthy relationships. Healing involves recognizing these feelings, understanding their origins, and practicing self-compassion. This journey may include therapy, self-reflection, and open conversations. By addressing these wounds, we can transform pain into resilience and achieve inner peace, leading to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. - [The Hidden Dangers of Always ‘Showing Up’ for Others”](https://healingexperiencenow.com/blog/why-constantly-showing-up-for-others-is-deadly/): In contrary to disbelief, we are taught from a young age that being selfish is a negative trait- that “Sharing is Caring.” But what if I told you that constantly putting others first can actually hold you back from living your best life? In our society, selflessness is often praised as a virtue, while selfishness is condemned as morally wrong. From childhood, we’re conditioned to prioritize the needs and desires of others above our own, believing that this is the path to being a good person. But what if this mindset is holding us back from living our best lives? 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